What is so attractive about these Guys

Man choice? Man choice is a very personal thing. Its like how do you like your hamburger. Some people like to dress their hamburger healthily, they want tomatoes, lettuce onions no mayo, while some people like it unhealthy and greasy with the cheese, the bacon and the gobs of mayo and mustard. Some people just like meat and bread and nothing else and still some people don't like any meat which is probably the equivalent of a lesbian. But anyways the point is you like what you like and if what you like is not good for you you are going to learn that through experience. 

Unfortunately, man-choice seems to be an area where women have a hard time of learning from other peoples experiences. Alot of the time women have to go through being screwed over by a man before they learn. I was just telling a friend I cant believe the men some of these ladies are attracted to. I cant believe it. I cant believe anybody will give them the time of day. 

One thing I can say about men is that they seem to have better grasp on the concept that there are two groups of women: women that you fuck and women that you marry. I'm not saying that they are perfect at distinguishing the two but they seem to do quit a bit better than women. And I think that today's young black women will do a whole lot better if they can just grasp the concept that they are some men that you fuck and they are men that you marry and make babies with. They are men that are only good for one thing and you shouldn't use them for anything else outside of that one thing. Just like the men say you cant turn a hoe into a housewives", you don't turn certain men into fathers or husbands. Everybody does not need children and some people are not cut out for the married life, even if they are willing to get married, everybody is not good at everything unfortunately. It can be tricky to figure who could make a good father or husbands because somebody could look good on paper but not be good in practices. But if you could at least identify men who defiantly do not need to be fathers or husbands then that's half the battle I think its the more important battle. 

So how can we rule potential bad fathers and husbands out, we can work on ruling people later, for now lets just stick to ruling the losers out. Lets say you needed to get a loan so you go into a bank but you cant just walk into a bank looking cute and being charismatic and expect to walk out if there with a loan. No, they want to see your credit history, they want to know do you have a job, they want to know do you have assets, they want to know that if they give you this money can you pay it back. 


If your trying to get into university, for example Trinity College, you cant just walk into Trinity and say "I'm here to sign up". They going to ask you for your Leaving Cert results, what extra curricular activities you've done and references, they want to know all this stuff so they can know what type of person they are dealing with. Now of course, despite all this background checking that they do some people still do drop out of college and some people still do default on loans, but if they didn't check these things at all they will have a whole lot more of college drop outs and a whole lot more defaulters on loans.


Now how do you find out a mans history. Well for one, you can do your own investigation but that can be a little stalkerish. You could ask people who know him or you can ask the guy himself but he might not tell you the truth or he might not tell you all the everything that you need to know. Now if he refuse to tell you all together then that's your answer right that but if he those tell you and you think that he may be lying then that's your answer right there. Or if he those not have anything to tell because he may be inexperienced or a late bloomer then you want to follow want credit cards do. Do credit cards company give credit to people with no credit history, yes. But they only give you a little credit to start of with. They give you a little bit of credit to start of with to see how you do with it and as you prove yourself they raise your credit limit. So just like the the credit company those you should see how the man handles little things before you let him handle the big things like being a father and getting married.


Now that's how you rule somebody out and in this post where trying to rule somebody in. Now if you see these things I wouldn't deal with them at all but if you must don't make a baby with them and don't marry them. Now I'm going to use a celebrity example to show the kind of things that rule a man out, at least for the long terms things. For example, Lil Wayne, and I was talking to a friend and she said she would get with him.





Now of course Lil Wayne has alot of money and he is famous so that's going to attract alot of women to him. But that's not what my friend said she was attracted too. She said he was sexy and she wasn't talking about his looks either she was talking about his persona. 


Alright just for the sake of argument lets take away Lil Wayne money and his fame, what do you have left? You have a guy with a criminal record who has served time in jail, who has multiple baby mamas and two of those baby mama were pregnant at the same time,  so that means he was sleeping with them in the same time period!





Next thing how can you be a huge star, making millions of dollars then go to jail for some dumb shit. If I had his type of money I will be the most law abiding citizen of the United States of America, you wouldn't even catch me jay-walking. 


Next of all, having a bunch of kids by a bunch of different women is not smart, especially with the type of child support laws they have over in the US.  And you may say that he has alot of money so it doesn't matter, no he has alot of money right now, he not going to stay on top forever and what happens to alot of these stars is that they get real big and they get use to spending money like water because they always have some more coming in and they finally when things start to slow down they forget to scale back their spending then they go broke. And you dont know how he is handling his money or who is handling is money. You can ask Toni Braxton, TLC and Gary Coleman (rest his soul) about that. So this careless behavior that he is exhibiting should be a red flag. 


Next point, and correct me if I'm wrong what employable skills those Lil Wayne have? And please do not say rapping, where can i go get a job rapping, like nowhere. See Michael Jackson had employable skills. He could write music, he could dance, see people will pay you to teach them how to dance, he could give voice lessons, people will pay you for that. What will Lil Wayne be qualified to do if he weren't rapping? He didn't even finish high school, he did go back to get his GED but a GED is a broke-ass high school diploma. 





So we have a drop-out, a jail bird, multiple baby mama having, no employable skills that I can think of  and a failed two year marriage. I'm sorry but whats attractive about this guy? And there are alot of young black women out there running around with or chasing  money-less, fame-less versions of Lil Wayne. You do not want a man like this for a husband or the father of your kids. I'll give you another example, Tupac. 





That's right I said Tupac,  now I love Tupac, I got alot of his music but in all honesty he is the type of guy to make a horrible father and a horrible husband. He kept on getting in trouble with the law and he had a problem with a authority. And even when it wasn't his fault when he was getting in trouble with the law even if there was some conspiracy against him I still cant get with him because I don't need all that in my life. Anybody who has millions of dollars and still can't stay out of jail they got a problem. So if they didn't have that money you can only imagine where they be. 





If you cant get past his Tupac'ness to see that this is the type of guy that you do not need in your life romantically then Houston we have a serious problem. Now I think Tupac is handsome, I think he had alot of charisma and I even think Waka Flame is very handsome but there just no freaking way I would ever get involved with guys like that. Now of course I'm not really talking about those guys because Tupac is dead and most of us will nver run into Waka Flame, but I'm just talking about those type of guys. These are the type of guys that i will suggest that you will leave alone altogether but if you must have them don't make a baby and do not marry them.